Today My Blog Had Its 300,000th Hit For Which I Am So Grateful
My blog has not been either the usual “What I Did Today” nor
a steady commentary on one particular subject.
Instead I’ve tended to write mini-essays on many different topics: gay
rights, atheism, law, family stories, cats, etc. I’ve published a lot of works in my life:
numerous law review articles, seven textbooks used nationwide to teach various
aspects of commercial law, three student guides that paid enough to be a major
factor in getting my son through college, two novels, and even columns in minor
publications, but nothing turns out to have been as important to me as this
blog. It contains my entire life: my
history, my philosophy, my advice on many topics from the mundane (how to take
many pills at once [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2010/05/how-to-take-or-many-pills-easily.html])
to the profound (how to make the hard decisions in life [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2010/07/deathbed-test.html],
how to handle being gay [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2010/08/how-to-tell-if-youre-gay.html],
atheism and belief [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2011/05/atheist-interviews-god.html],
and more).
My other works have an expiration date on them (well,
perhaps not the novels) since inevitably the law will change and my law books
will become out of date once I depart the scene (a prospect that seems more
ominous as I venture into my seventies).
But the blog will never die as long as Google lasts. What a terrific—and scary—thought that is!
My readership is worldwide: more than a third of my hits
come from outside the United States (and it was nearly forty percent when the
blog first started—I don’t know why).
The current statistics only report on the last 50,000 hits (one sixth of
the current total), but within that number here are the top 25 countries in
number of visitors:
Immodestly, I like to think my blog makes a difference. Without knowing their names or how to contact
them, I can tell from their paths through the blog that many readers have
tracked my thoughts carefully. More than
once a week, for example, a reader somewhere in the world explores almost all
of my posts having to do with being a homosexual in a world that is often still
very suspicious of gays, and that leads me to believe I’m making it easier to
understand how to deal with the dilemmas this social difficulty can cause. Sometimes users will pull my email address from
my blog profile and send me specific questions (or put them in the comments to
individual blog posts). I’ve heard from
scared teenagers who fear their parents will kill them if they come out, to
very closeted homosexuals in countries or communities where being discovered
leads to disaster. My heart goes out to
them and I offer what advice I can. I’ve also advised parents on how to deal with their own
homophobia [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2013/10/disowning-your-gay-children.html].
Incredibly, once a year or so a reader decides to read
almost every one of the blog posts I’ve written, which would take days. Most recently someone in Ann Arbor, Michigan
began doing this, and in the past the phenomenon has ranged over the planet
from the United Kingdom to Brunei and spots in between. I’m humbled by this, but perhaps I shouldn’t
be—these readers may hate my posts so much that a grip of horror keeps pulling
them back.
The most popular posts have to do with legal matters, these three dominating: promissory notes in mortgage foreclosures http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2013/02/mortgage-foreclosures-missing.html],
payment-in-full checks [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2011/04/payment-in-full-check-powerful-legal.html],
and writing legal threat letters [http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2011/10/how-to-write-effective-legal-threat.html]. But, embarrassingly, my musings about sexual
matters have also been widely read all over the globe (even—gasp—in Paris!),
most particularly http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2011/11/good-sex-bad-sex-advice-on-making-love.html
and http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2011/03/seducing-straight-men.html.
Gay rights and atheism come in next in
number of visitors, followed by the odds and ends of my posts. For a list by categories, see “A Guide to the
Best of My Blog,” April 29, 2013 [[http://douglaswhaley.blogspot.com/2013/04/a-guide-to-best-of-my-blog.html]. The legal posts lead to tricky questions
about specific situations, but since I’m not allowed to practice law in most of
these jurisdictions all I can give by way of help is a general discussion of
what the rules of law are in the areas in which I’m conversant and a recommendation to consult an attorney.
It’s been a joy to have this blog, and particularly to
connect to my readers. I’m very grateful
to you all for taking the time out of your lives to venture briefly into mine.
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