The Words “Queer” and “Gay” in the 21st Century
It seems a shame to so
completely preempt an age-old meaning, so, in an attempt to rescue the word
“queer” and restore it to its more traditional usage, I will sometimes use it
as a verb. For example, in my classroom
I can be heard telling my law students, “If a settlement agreement is set to be
signed on Friday, never postpone it until Monday if you can avoid it because
all too often something will happen over the weekend to queer the deal.” The students appear startled (they all know I’m
gay), and then relax into the idea that “queer” is rightly used in this
fashion. But that’s as a verb. Employing “queer” as an adjective is still appropriate solely
in the limited setting in which it cannot possibly have a homosexual meaning,
as in “She heard a queer noise from the basement.” Only in those limited references does “queer”
survives as a word having its original meaning.
“Gay” springs from the
French “gai,” meaning “high-spirited,” which in turn was taken from the Old
High German “gahi” where it meant ‘impetuous.” It first turned up in print as a
reference to homosexuality in a 1933 dictionary of slang, reflecting an oral
tradition that had been around at least since the 1920s, apparently originating
in the United States and then moving to Great Britain. In his 1929 operetta “Bitter Sweet” Noel
Coward (himself a homosexual) used it in a song in which very fey men sing “As
we are the reason for the 90s being gay, we all wear a green carnation” [see http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xCXwtETzQ9s].
Noel Coward |
While “queer” has so far
survived as a word divorced from its homosexual connotation, it’s a different
story for “gay.” Though modern audiences
will accept its old meaning in dated pieces [witness “I feel pretty, and witty,
and gay” from West Side Story], no
modern speaker or writer intending to convey the idea that someone is “happy” or
“light hearted” would call him/her “gay.”
The word’s been swamped completely by historical developments. Regret it though we
might, “gay” can no longer be used to mean “happy.” Never.
Nowhere. If you try and use it
that way your listener will get a confused message and unnecessary time and
energy will be wasted trying to discern what is truly meant. No one planning to be understood needs that
kind of distraction.
And—alas—people whose first or last name is “Gay” are in for a
rough life.
Author Gay Talese and Wife |
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“How To Stop Saying ‘You
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